la ricerca della felicità

“ You see most of the hurt that we experience and cause to others isn't intentional. We are all influenced by our past, what we've been through in our experiences and what we know tends to define us. Human nature is to see things through our own point of view, counting the ways we have been wronged and how we have been hurt. We are all broken, and we all hurt each other. Through time, with maturity we must first learn to understand why we are the way that we are. What has been done to us, what are our triggers for the way that we respond to people? We project our insecurities, our fears, our hurts, and we hurt others with our behavior because of it. Once we identify our own issues and acknowledge them we can begin to work on them and not let them control us, it's never too late to bring these things to the surface and address them. Taking it a step further when we are able to pause, and analyze someone else who may be hurting us and try to understand who they are, and the circumstances that they have been through or are currently going through it gives us insight. It allows us to put our narcissistic viewpoints aside, and truly attempt to understand the people around us.  ”

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“ Learning how to forgive others and themselves is a key to confidence. It puts the shame of being wrong away. ”

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“  Always watch for consistency in men. Do they do what they say they'll do? Are they who they said they were in the beginning? ”

“ We can't always predict how other people will treat us but that each person who comes into our lives we are responsible to love and treat with kindness. Sometimes they will stay and sometimes they will go. But while they're in our lives we will love them best we can and also hope for the best.  ”